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做人有时候真辛苦...

Sometimes it's not that the person is heartless and cruel, but it's to teach the other person a lesson so that they won't do it again in the future. If you let them get away with it, they would take advantage of you thinking that "it's ok, he/she won't mind, very nice wan that person!"

At first u might think that, "wah, so mean man why she like that wan?" but thinking of the big picture, it saves a lot of disappointment in the future. 长痛不如短痛嘛.. Perhaps another way would be to still help that person but also bring the person one side to talk about your displeasure.

I think sometimes the person does not really feel angry towards you but they just want you to learn the lesson because sometimes saying "nvm la" wouldn't make u pai seh enough to learn your lesson so I guess you just have to show the ugly side of yourself just to set things back to their respective place.

I suppose it's how the way you look at things, if u see it as a small picture, yes it's mean, but look at the big picture and they will know their boundaries.