Life has been teaching me a lot of stuff lately. Not that life hasn't been teaching me the past few years but it's just that I was moving on so fast that I never really stop to analyze things and think being as childish as I was...There are many things I learnt just this year alone but i will only mention 2 here Don't blame others, blame yourself for having high expectations; different people have different perceptions therefore you can not force people to see the same things you do. It's hard being a leader, managing people isn't easy as well, it makes me have this great admiration for the leaders out there, especially managers. I'm so tired...I need stress management...
Another lesson learnt, don't blame others for not understanding, blame yourself for not being clear. In just a short period of time, I've offended so many people. Can't seem tame this tongue of mine, I wasn't like this last time. It's about time I shape up. I guess the saying is true, when you point a finger at someone, 4 fingers points back at you. It's never about them, it's always all about you.
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Friday, June 15, 2012
Lameness
One day in class, my lecturer was telling us about this true life story. She was telling us about the days when she was a Housekeeping manager, there was this worker who worked in the laundry department. This worker was short of money, so he decided to do a back-to-back shift. While he was doing his shift, he got so sleepy he slept on the flat-work-ironer ( a big ass iron to iron bed sheets la) and his hand was caught in the iron, and his hand was flat, hot and ironed just like the bed sheets. The doctors couldn't save his arm therefore his hand had to be amputated. All my friends were listening in disgust and horror, and there I was speaking in a low whisper to the friend next to me and said:" omg!! He is now hands-free!!!!" Hahahahahahaa oh and now he can raise his children single-handedly Hahahahahaha
Omg... I'm so going to hell....
Omg... I'm so going to hell....
Monday, May 21, 2012
Shocking things I found out...I knew my friend's mother before I even met my friend HAHAHAHA omg woot?!
I think I gave myself too little credit. I do know a lot of people in church, just that people don't know me only lol I suppose I used to be that kid whose so quiet ppl don't take notice of me back in my younger days. I don't even remember me mixing with my friends in church. Come to think of it, what was I doing in church all those while? I know after I left CW I always sat with my mum in the century, but I don't even remember mingling with my friends when I was in CW my goodness...and somehow I know everybody's names, but they can't seem to remember mine. Maybe I was a self centered, snobbish kid that no one wants to mix with me Shocking that I even knew my friend's sister b4 I knew my friend and omg I knew them 9 years ago and only this year I met my friend *double gasp*
I think I gave myself too little credit. I do know a lot of people in church, just that people don't know me only lol I suppose I used to be that kid whose so quiet ppl don't take notice of me back in my younger days. I don't even remember me mixing with my friends in church. Come to think of it, what was I doing in church all those while? I know after I left CW I always sat with my mum in the century, but I don't even remember mingling with my friends when I was in CW my goodness...and somehow I know everybody's names, but they can't seem to remember mine. Maybe I was a self centered, snobbish kid that no one wants to mix with me Shocking that I even knew my friend's sister b4 I knew my friend and omg I knew them 9 years ago and only this year I met my friend *double gasp*
Sunday, April 22, 2012
Random thoughts
Random thought #1
As I sat on the sofa waiting for my friends to finish a movie, I saw a little girl playing with an interactive game projected on the floor. She was playing with it so happily, she didn't realize her family has left her behind. She continued playing until she realizes she is alone, so she called out to the busy mall "dad? DAD?" and she look frantically around her, searching the busy mall for the familiar face of her father; and just as she was searching, for her father,the father silently step behind her and stood there looking down at her, the little girl finally realized the presence of her father and hugged him immediately.
Oh... How I love fathers like that :) somehow that scene brought a smile to my face and I was smiling like an idiot alone there. However I know I would have hated my father if he were to do it to me if i was young hahaha but it looks so loving when u watch it from a 3rd person's perspective. It's like a father's strong and protective presence surrounding the young daughter to make sure no harm comes in her way :') it's sort of like, though u may have forgotten ur dad while having fun, but he will always be there to protect u and to stand by you. Besides to see a father daughter bond like that really brings joy to me, coz usually men don't fancy children, they are usually the ones doing all the discipline. Ah~ fathers.... I remember i used to cry over the slightest thing and my dad remembers it most, coz he has to deal with most of my cryings ahahahaha and my poor mum too, omg I can remember all the episodes clearly in my head :') joyful memories...
Random thought #2
I somehow think that days have a particular feng shui. I mean seriously! On days when nobody ajak me, they don't want to ajak, then when somebody ajak me already, everybody would ajak me out on that day too -.-" so I came to a conclusion that some days are good days to go out since everybody is ajak-ing everybody to go out -.- its really fascinating and annoying...happens ALL the time >.<
As I sat on the sofa waiting for my friends to finish a movie, I saw a little girl playing with an interactive game projected on the floor. She was playing with it so happily, she didn't realize her family has left her behind. She continued playing until she realizes she is alone, so she called out to the busy mall "dad? DAD?" and she look frantically around her, searching the busy mall for the familiar face of her father; and just as she was searching, for her father,the father silently step behind her and stood there looking down at her, the little girl finally realized the presence of her father and hugged him immediately.
Oh... How I love fathers like that :) somehow that scene brought a smile to my face and I was smiling like an idiot alone there. However I know I would have hated my father if he were to do it to me if i was young hahaha but it looks so loving when u watch it from a 3rd person's perspective. It's like a father's strong and protective presence surrounding the young daughter to make sure no harm comes in her way :') it's sort of like, though u may have forgotten ur dad while having fun, but he will always be there to protect u and to stand by you. Besides to see a father daughter bond like that really brings joy to me, coz usually men don't fancy children, they are usually the ones doing all the discipline. Ah~ fathers.... I remember i used to cry over the slightest thing and my dad remembers it most, coz he has to deal with most of my cryings ahahahaha and my poor mum too, omg I can remember all the episodes clearly in my head :') joyful memories...
Random thought #2
I somehow think that days have a particular feng shui. I mean seriously! On days when nobody ajak me, they don't want to ajak, then when somebody ajak me already, everybody would ajak me out on that day too -.-" so I came to a conclusion that some days are good days to go out since everybody is ajak-ing everybody to go out -.- its really fascinating and annoying...happens ALL the time >.<
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Hunger Games
Just recently my friends invited me to watch Hunger Games with them but unfortunately I was working so i declined their invitation. But i got so curious on what this story was all about that i went and google it and found out it was initially a book and then made into a film, then i saw the very familiar front cover which i have seen in many bookstores while i was using up all my 1Malaysia voucher but just never paid much attention to it. So anyway, i thought since i'm so bored at work, might as well go search for the book online. After some searching, i found a website that provides a 3 chapter preview on this book. The minute i started on it, i didn't want to stop. I read until the last chapter of the preview and i got frustrated coz there is nothing more to read. I searched high and low on the internet but to no avail. I was so tempted to like drop by Popular to purchase the book , but thank heavens i found a torrent yesterday which allows me to download the trilogy *excited* 3 books in one man ^^
The book is very much interesting and captivating, a genre of books which i rarely touch. But this book was awesome, captivating since pg1. And i stared at my computer screen from day to night ( even in the office hahahaha) just to finish the book. Its as if i've already watched the movie in my head. However i read reviews online which states that the movie was some what disappointing and that people who did not read the book would still be able to enjoy the movie. Anyway, i just finished the book and went on Youtube to have a peek at the trailer, and straight away i saw the flaws... it didn't follow the book exactly which means it has lost part of the elements that made the story meaningful. I don't really know how the movie will turn out, but i hope i won't be too disappointed when i watch it since the book was full of details =/
Sunday, March 4, 2012
Epic Month March
Just got back from a friend's wedding, the sweetest thing ever man... Anyway somehow when I say friend, ppl tend to assume my friend is 20 years old and getting married ( with a hint of "must have gotten herself knocked up" in their eyes) I suppose I don't blame them, coz I think I would assume the age too if my friends told me about their friends. But yea, due to me joining societies and jobs and church event, I have friends whose ages ranges from 15-50 something aunties -.- so yea... Anyway my this friend is 25, and she just got married in Taylor's Lakeside Campus , OMG it was one of the most sweetest and memorable wedding that I have ever attended in my life. Not only was it unique since it was a garden wedding, but because it was very touching. Even a cold hearted person like me almost cried.
I mean I have been to church weddings ,2 in fact ( not counting the ones I went to when I was little coz I don't remember anything) and it was just ok, but this one was really touching, I suppose it was because they went through a lot when they were dating. And the vows that they exchanged was from the bottom of their hearts, not the normal til death do us part bla bla bla, but it was the grooms own words, frm the bottom of his heart. And the bride vow started with a song named "最重要的决定" she sang it to her husband and she was swallowing back tears and then after that she said her vow too. I suppose when u r saying something frm ur heart, u tend to cry.
Omg and then there was the tea ceremony which made me watery too was when the bride was pouring tea for her parents, and then she said to her daddy " dad, since young u have given me everything but when it comes to my husband u denied him once. I know we do not talk often but deep down i know u love me and want the best for me just like I love you too" omg shit man...and then she thanked her mom too which was quite touching too, but she made it humorous.
Since I was part of the flash mob, I was able to witness all this, I could see the unity in the people of the church, all her performances were free, all by the college societies and most of them by the church members. U could feel the family in them just by witnessing. It was a true blessing ^^ I wish I could post up the video of us flash mobbing but I think it's gonna be on our group page so don't think it will see the light of day. It sucks I couldn't take much photos, but hopefully I can steal from my friends and post up here :) but just to dangle some meat I have 2 photos here :)
This month is gonna be a super busy month for me, next week got another wedding to attend :/ but this time as a guest hahaha then Easter production rehearsals have started, then lots of dinner outings coming up. Basically I don't stay at home for more than 4 hours excluding sleeping time of course coz it's not counted when u dun see ur family. Today itself I've only been home for 1 hour. Back to back activities man, so pooped out right now. Anyways ciaoz
I mean I have been to church weddings ,2 in fact ( not counting the ones I went to when I was little coz I don't remember anything) and it was just ok, but this one was really touching, I suppose it was because they went through a lot when they were dating. And the vows that they exchanged was from the bottom of their hearts, not the normal til death do us part bla bla bla, but it was the grooms own words, frm the bottom of his heart. And the bride vow started with a song named "最重要的决定" she sang it to her husband and she was swallowing back tears and then after that she said her vow too. I suppose when u r saying something frm ur heart, u tend to cry.
Omg and then there was the tea ceremony which made me watery too was when the bride was pouring tea for her parents, and then she said to her daddy " dad, since young u have given me everything but when it comes to my husband u denied him once. I know we do not talk often but deep down i know u love me and want the best for me just like I love you too" omg shit man...and then she thanked her mom too which was quite touching too, but she made it humorous.
Since I was part of the flash mob, I was able to witness all this, I could see the unity in the people of the church, all her performances were free, all by the college societies and most of them by the church members. U could feel the family in them just by witnessing. It was a true blessing ^^ I wish I could post up the video of us flash mobbing but I think it's gonna be on our group page so don't think it will see the light of day. It sucks I couldn't take much photos, but hopefully I can steal from my friends and post up here :) but just to dangle some meat I have 2 photos here :)
This month is gonna be a super busy month for me, next week got another wedding to attend :/ but this time as a guest hahaha then Easter production rehearsals have started, then lots of dinner outings coming up. Basically I don't stay at home for more than 4 hours excluding sleeping time of course coz it's not counted when u dun see ur family. Today itself I've only been home for 1 hour. Back to back activities man, so pooped out right now. Anyways ciaoz
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Tuesday!
I was an interesting day indeed....I don't want to brag but somehow i feel like if i do not post this up, it doesn't give the person enough credits; besides I'm really grateful and appreciate all the efforts my friends did for me today ^^ Since nobody really reads this blog so i suppose it's ok to dedicate this post to them =) I will not disclose who, but i know you read this, and you know who you are ;)
My message to person #1
Thank you so much for your letter ^^ librarian + Lady Gaga seems pretty weird hahahaha and i really didn't know Lady Gaga is kind, is she?
I thought the poem is super unique hahaha pokemon man! Hmm.... It's good to know i'm better than a Lvl 80 Rapidash hahahaha and if my smile is like a hyperbeam, everybody would be dead by now, so make me moody or you'll die!
And yeah, thanks for reminding me to sell the piggies oh and the little chocolate too....i think that could fetch me RM15 hahahahha joking ;) it was a pleasant surprise really ^^
I wanted to thank you on facebook, but then i saw someone commented on your wall and so i just thought nvm, you'll read this won't you? =)
Thank You so much, it was totally unexpected and you should have seen the delivery guy, so handsome man ;) It got me wondering though, y of all days today? shouldn't it be for someone special? as in romantically special? I suppose friendship day is good too =) thanks for making it a memorable one ^^
Person #2
I must be pretty weird to you huh? i suppose most of my friends say that about me too lol thank you for putting in so much efforts weih, waking up so early some more... and the efforts and time you used for the card, *touched* it's good to know i'm "fun size" it really reminds me of those mini packets of smarties or something hahahaha i know it's just a nicer way of saying "shortie" but hey, short is good ;) can wear high heels hahahahaha
Haih, you are too nice la, you would like go all out for your friends and though you don't see it, or even think you are mean for doing it (woot?) I can see that you really care for your friends, and are genuinely kind too.
And the 3 mini box of presents, i bet you broke the budget, can't fool me ;) No doubt you kept to the budget but without the other person's contribution there wouldn't be boxes, right? Oh and yea, about the flower, you said purple is friendship so i tried to google it, apparently friendship is yellow, purple has a totally different meaning but your intentions were clear so yea ^^
all in all, thank you for putting so much efforts into this, truthfully i'm really grateful on the inside but on the outside i don't express it well so sorry if i wasn't giving out the response that you were expecting. I suppose i express it better in words so yea =D
My message to person #1
Thank you so much for your letter ^^ librarian + Lady Gaga seems pretty weird hahahaha and i really didn't know Lady Gaga is kind, is she?
I thought the poem is super unique hahaha pokemon man! Hmm.... It's good to know i'm better than a Lvl 80 Rapidash hahahaha and if my smile is like a hyperbeam, everybody would be dead by now, so make me moody or you'll die!
And yeah, thanks for reminding me to sell the piggies oh and the little chocolate too....i think that could fetch me RM15 hahahahha joking ;) it was a pleasant surprise really ^^
I wanted to thank you on facebook, but then i saw someone commented on your wall and so i just thought nvm, you'll read this won't you? =)
Thank You so much, it was totally unexpected and you should have seen the delivery guy, so handsome man ;) It got me wondering though, y of all days today? shouldn't it be for someone special? as in romantically special? I suppose friendship day is good too =) thanks for making it a memorable one ^^
Person #2
I must be pretty weird to you huh? i suppose most of my friends say that about me too lol thank you for putting in so much efforts weih, waking up so early some more... and the efforts and time you used for the card, *touched* it's good to know i'm "fun size" it really reminds me of those mini packets of smarties or something hahahaha i know it's just a nicer way of saying "shortie" but hey, short is good ;) can wear high heels hahahahaha
Haih, you are too nice la, you would like go all out for your friends and though you don't see it, or even think you are mean for doing it (woot?) I can see that you really care for your friends, and are genuinely kind too.
And the 3 mini box of presents, i bet you broke the budget, can't fool me ;) No doubt you kept to the budget but without the other person's contribution there wouldn't be boxes, right? Oh and yea, about the flower, you said purple is friendship so i tried to google it, apparently friendship is yellow, purple has a totally different meaning but your intentions were clear so yea ^^
all in all, thank you for putting so much efforts into this, truthfully i'm really grateful on the inside but on the outside i don't express it well so sorry if i wasn't giving out the response that you were expecting. I suppose i express it better in words so yea =D
I LOVE YOU MY FRIENDS!!
I don't know what i did to deserve friends like you.....i'm starting to think i'm overrated =/
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